Unfiltered, Honest, and Loving Times of A Woman and her CRAZY, but Happy Life!!!

I know that one day I'll be my mother.  I will be wishing my kids and grandkids lived closer.  I will be looking back at my life and think I should have done this or that differently.  I will reminisce about the time I did this or that, went here or there, etc., but I am not there yet. Where I am is watching my Mother-In-Law spending the remainder of her life in a place that is not home.  A place filled with strangers that care for her every need but it's not home.  Pictures hang on her wall to remind her she has grandchildren.  She has a Steeler's and WVU blanket on her bed to remind her she is a fan.  She looks out the window by her bed to remind her of the seasons, day to night, and is the sun shining or is it raining outside.  She sings hymns to remind herself she is Christian with a strong faith and that God will never forsake her but set by her bed until she falls asleep. None of this is easy.  My two best friends both went through this with their mother.  They wa

So, has most of you know I have been blessed with an amazing foster daughter, but with these moments come challenges.  Challenges of being a "mom" to "two" teenagers, dealing with new emotions facing the family, making sure she knows no matter what I love her and that I will protect her, and that her holiday's will be joyful and time will be spent with her brother's and mother. However, when you are 14 years old and you have been dealt a "crappy" hand you just sometimes don't believe what you are told.  I know even as an adult I have been told things I believe are true but then the truth becomes questionable.  I don't think people intend to tell you what you want to hear but they do. For whatever reason the words just come flowing out of their mouth and before you know it those words are imprinted on the heart and mind of that other person. Today's challenge, "Think before you speak".  Make your words count and make sure i

So much has happened this year to our family.  We have been blessed to have a wonderful young lady who is now part of our family.  Alyssa is smart, loving, beautiful and so many other wonderful things I don't think I could put everything in a blog.  She has won the heart of me, Skip, our family but most of all our son. My mother in law has been moved to facility closer to our home in Richmond.  Although it has been an adjustment on the family I don't think I would want it in other way.  We visit her 2 to 3 times a week (sometimes more).  I think the nurses probably dread to see me coming because I am always asking a million questions and making sure she is getting all she needs.  With my father in law dealing with his own health challenges it made since to bring her closer to us and her other two children. So today I am grateful.  Grateful for the new "daughter" God has given me and my mother in law who is closer. All My Love, Rae💗

Well my son was suspended for the past 5 days from school.  Yes I know shocking, for those who know my son personally, but not surprising given the current climate of our school systems and the stress placed on both students and teachers. It used to be when I went school the most worrisome moment was if Ricky Epson would ever see me as his girlfriend or if my BFF, at that given class period, would be coming to a slumber party I had planned for the weekend.  Now at 15 kids are concerned with college admissions, being athletic in all sports, peer pressure, and the homework, lord the homework.  Then for the teachers and administrators that are educating our children they are shown very little appreciation and being under paid.  Sad really because these kids are our future and we can't even pay the ones educating them much more then minimum wage.  Thank goodness it is a passion for some teachers because it is definitely not the MONEY. Well he returned to school today with a message

So what is a "Fandom"?  A definition of   Fandom  is a  subculture  composed of  fans  characterized by a feeling of  empathy  and  camaraderie  with others who share a common interest. In my case the "fandom" I belong to are known as "Evil Regals" who follow the TV Series "Once Upon A Time" and are loyal to "The Evil Queen" played by the talented Lana Parrilla.   How did I get into the "fandom"?  Will I don't really know other than one night I decided to watch something on Netflix and "Once Upon A Time" seemed like a good choice.  Well after the pilot I was hooked.  Then I started reading about Lana Parrilla on line.  I created a Twitter account, where at the time Lana communicated with her fans, and my world opened up.  I have made some of my best friends through this fandom but it has come at a price.  The price that I have neglected some of the friends I had before the fandom.  It was hard for me to include